WHO SENT MURATHE TO RAIN ON RUTO’S PARTY?

Whoever sent one David Murathe to cry a mutiny hit the jackpot.The jubilee point man and vice chair has with his “unguarded” mouth let the cat out of the bag.Now all the hounds are baying for his innocent blood.They are calling him a non entity.

Why,I ask,do people have to respond to someone insignificant?First of all let me remind you what this Jubilee party point man said,he was of the view that the Deputy President should retire as his boss retire.That both shared the loaf equally. That any M.O.U if it did exist it was between the two.Those utterance made hell ran loose.

For it is a poorly kept secret that one DR. Dp  Ruto is the front runner comes 2022 to replace Uhuru. There is even a simmering noise that their is an M.O.U to that effect. Why then did Murathe rock the boat?Who had sent him?

Or was he under influence as one Kimani Ichung’wa,M.p for Kikuyu,wanted many to believe? Or was he a barking dog which as one Murkomen,the D.P right hand man,said it is a poor decision to stoop and throw a stone at any passing canine?

Please note ,this is not the first time one Murathe is making pronouncements on matters policy concerning Jubilee. When he let every one know that we are going to witness a ruthless President Uhuru in his second term not many raised a finger or eyebrows. Has it not come to pass?Look at the war on corruption.

It may not be a perfect war right now but the fight is pumped up.Their is little doubt that one Murathe is just an earshot from the man at the top.What he says then ,only a fool may ignore without searching for it deeper meaning. No one less has said that his choice for a successor will come as a shocker than the man at the top.

Many in the URP arm have tried many designs and devices in order to arm twist President Uhuru to made public his preferred successor. So far the President have succeeded in playing dumb.

Listen to Irungu Kang’ata,the senator for Murang’a: ” No one has the jurisdiction to impose a successor and to dictate to My Kenya region whom to back except the community top man?Was this sentiment poised as a bait so as the president can show his hand?

As a jubilee vice chair,one cannot just wave off Murathe’s sentiment. What then?Was his utterance a bare knuckle attack ,a frontal attack on WSR ambition? Was he letting him know what is the Offing in the Jubilee kitchen?

For sure,one D.p,is a suave politician. He may weather the storm.In fact this maybe a storm in a tea cup for him.To be forewarned is to be forearmed. These statement meant to test his resolve may steel his resolve.

But when such utterance comes from a deep seated party member, one whom not to far away from the top seat then,one WSR,need to sit and note.So far many have understood a fury in Muraithe’s words but not the words.

Again listen to Ngirici ,Kirinyaga women’s representative  “We know him(Murathe) as part of that clique which was pushing for Mudavadi presidency in 2013”  words deployed as a mask to tell that he is loser.

Nothing illustrate well the politicians lack of depth in interpreting Jubilee supremo words than this not scratching the surface dismissive outburst.

Look at the scenery where Mr Murathe made his mind known. It was deep in Western, a region where the D.P have launched a scorched earth policy in wooing of the voters .Of note in attendance was one Mudavadi and western region leadership.

This no doubt has left many buying the idea that this well choreographed show was meant to paint  Mudavadi as part and parcel of a formation,an alliance meant to run for presidency in 2022.

Away from the “official” MOU inked deal.Note too, that the president has challenged the Nation to interrogate the efficacy  of a winner take all,presidential system. Of course one way of pursuing this interrogation is through a referendum.Yes the much talked vote.Have the president boarded?

One thing is clear though the D.p and his team are on the front line in opposing a referendum which is engineered to benefit a few with luscious positions. Is it not hard to reconcile the two party mandarins stance? No one is much taken aback by these development than one D.p.

Once the election was over he took off the hurdles by enduring himself to the voters at a neck breaking speed.Now this. Then a handshake. Nothing has muddied the waters for the URP top man than this new found bromance between Raila and the president.

The  dilemma brought by this newly found camaraderie was well captured by none else but one Deputy president,when in Kisumu,he said that whenever one see Raila and Uhuru,let one look for him(D.P) in between .You agree with me that being a middle roader is taxing.You get hit from within and without.

The D.p is in the deep end.He either float or sink.His occult masterly of the political landscape remains his ace.Right now,Iam watching the president address the Nation in a press round table,at ease,the president let every one know that he has not discussed 2022 politics with Raila.And dismisses any talk of 2022 succession as premature.

His coming together with Raila,he says,was meant to bring peace and stability to the country.He dismissed those peddling 2022 succession politics as busy bodies and he insisted that he is not in the game.Angrily he tell the press not to proceed pressing further on matter 2022 succession.

One thing comes out clearly that the president is not amused by this immature 2022 campaign. But everyone knows who is spear heading these campaigns. Now that the president does seem impressed by the campaign, will one ,second in Jubilee party,continue to cross the country,whipping the mass into a campaign mood?

The president is playing a high voltage politics. He is keeping his cards up his sleeve.He has Raila and so is Ruto in his stable. Yet  none can read his mind.Each is check mating the other.Everyone is looking up to the boss.

Bring Kalonzo and Musalia to the equation too.They are looking up to the high table. Everyone one pray to be the anointed one.The president firmly presses his cards on his chest.A maestro. At this political game.

Being the front runner and the crown prince ,D.p must be feeling the heat.Could this heat be the one which have smoked him out of his comfort into pre mature campaign?He may get a burn out ,out of the early campaigns

.Can it play as a headstart?One thing is certain though his boss is crystal clear that he will not participate in lighting the rod of premature campaign.

Otherwise he risk making himself a lame duck right at the start of his second term.This is the Gordian knot he is not keen to untie,a knot which places the D.p in a catch 22 situation.

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RAILA,MUSALIA AND NOW MURATHE:RUTO’S ROADBLOCKS TO PRESIDENCY?

 Whoever sent one David Murathe to cry a mutiny hit the jackpot.The jubilee point man and vice chair has with his “unguarded” mouth let the cat out of the bag.Now all the hounds are baying for his innocent blood.They are calling him a non entity.

Why,I ask,do people have to respond to someone insignificant?First of all let me remind you what this Jubilee party point man said,he was of the view that the Deputy President should retire as his boss retire.That both shared the loaf equally. That any M.O.U if it did exist it was between the two.Those utterance made hell ran loose.

For it is a poorly kept secret that one DR. Dp  Ruto is the front runner comes 2022 to replace Uhuru. There is even a simmering noise that their is an M.O.U to that effect. Why then did Murathe rock the boat?Who had sent him?

Or was he under influence as one Kimani Ichung’wa,M.p for Kikuyu,wanted many to believe? Or was he a barking dog which as one Murkomen,the D.P right hand man,said it is a poor decision to stoop and throw a stone at any passing canine?

Please note ,this is not the first time one Murathe is making pronouncements on matters policy concerning Jubilee. When he let every one know that we are going to witness a ruthless President Uhuru in his second term not many raised a finger or eyebrows. Has it not come to pass?Look at the war on corruption.

It may not be a perfect war right now but the fight is pumped up.Their is little doubt that one Murathe is just an earshot from the man at the top.What he says then ,only a fool may ignore without searching for it deeper meaning. No one less has said that his choice for a successor will come as a shocker than the man at the top.

Many in the URP arm have tried many designs and devices in order to arm twist President Uhuru to made public his preferred successor. So far the President have succeeded in playing dumb.

Listen to Irungu Kang’ata,the senator for Murang’a: ” No one has the jurisdiction to impose a successor and to dictate to My Kenya region whom to back except the community top man?Was this sentiment poised as a bait so as the president can show his hand?

As a jubilee vice chair,one cannot just wave off Murathe’s sentiment. What then?Was his utterance a bare knuckle attack ,a frontal attack on WSR ambition? Was he letting him know what is the Offing in the Jubilee kitchen?

For sure,one D.p,is a suave politician. He may weather the storm.In fact this maybe a storm in a tea cup for him.To be forewarned is to be forearmed. These statement meant to test his resolve may steel his resolve.

But when such utterance comes from a deep seated party member, one whom not to far away from the top seat then,one WSR,need to sit and note.So far many have understood a fury in Muraithe’s words but not the words.

Again listen to Ngirici ,Kirinyaga women’s representative  “We know him(Murathe) as part of that clique which was pushing for Mudavadi presidency in 2013”  words deployed as a mask to tell that he is loser.

Nothing illustrate well the politicians lack of depth in interpreting Jubilee supremo words than this not scratching the surface dismissive outburst.

Look at the scenery where Mr Murathe made his mind known. It was deep in Western, a region where the D.P have launched a scorched earth policy in wooing of the voters .Of note in attendance was one Mudavadi and western region leadership.

This no doubt has left many buying the idea that this well choreographed show was meant to paint  Mudavadi as part and parcel of a formation,an alliance meant to run for presidency in 2022.

Away from the “official” MOU inked deal.Note too, that the president has challenged the Nation to interrogate the efficacy  of a winner take all,presidential system. Of course one way of pursuing this interrogation is through a referendum.Yes the much talked vote.Have the president boarded?

One thing is clear though the D.p and his team are on the front line in opposing a referendum which is engineered to benefit a few with luscious positions. Is it not hard to reconcile the two party mandarins stance? No one is much taken aback by these development than one D.p.

Once the election was over he took off the hurdles by enduring himself to the voters at a neck breaking speed.Now this. Then a handshake. Nothing has muddied the waters for the URP top man than this new found bromance between Raila and the president.

The  dilemma brought by this newly found camaraderie was well captured by none else but one Deputy president,when in Kisumu,he said that whenever one see Raila and Uhuru,let one look for him(D.P) in between .You agree with me that being a middle roader is taxing.You get hit from within and without.

The D.p is in the deep end.He either float or sink.His occult masterly of the political landscape remains his ace.Right now,Iam watching the president address the Nation in a press round table,at ease,the president let every one know that he has not discussed 2022 politics with Raila.And dismisses any talk of 2022 succession as premature.

His coming together with Raila,he says,was meant to bring peace and stability to the country.He dismissed those peddling 2022 succession politics as busy bodies and he insisted that he is not in the game.Angrily he tell the press not to proceed pressing further on matter 2022 succession.

One thing comes out clearly that the president is not amused by this immature 2022 campaign. But everyone knows who is spear heading these campaigns. Now that the president does seem impressed by the campaign, will one ,second in Jubilee party,continue to cross the country,whipping the mass into a campaign mood?

The president is playing a high voltage politics. He is keeping his cards up his sleeve.He has Raila and so is Ruto in his stable. Yet  none can read his mind.Each is check mating the other.Everyone is looking up to the boss.

Bring Kalonzo and Musalia to the equation too.They are looking up to the high table. Everyone one pray to be the anointed one.The president firmly presses his cards on his chest.A maestro. At this political game.

Being the front runner and the crown prince ,D.p must be feeling the heat.Could this heat be the one which have smoked him out of his comfort into pre mature campaign?He may get a burn out ,out of the early campaigns

.Can it play as a headstart?One thing is certain though his boss is crystal clear that he will not participate in lighting the rod of premature campaign.

Otherwise he risk making himself a lame duck right at the start of his second term.This is the Gordian knot he is not keen to untie,a knot which places the D.p in a catch 22 situation.

HELLO 2019 ! BYE 2018

New year resolutions,worthy people,are now trending like hot cakes.Like promises made and promises broken these resolutions are flying all over,right and left.

Exchange me for a fish if I load myself with a basket  of- not- intending- to- actualize new year resolutions and blown out resolutions of yester years.

As 2019 knocks the door I have made one resolution;that is,not to dupe myself with unattainable resolutions.Many are,perhaps you included, who rush to make resolution which they never pursue even half the way.

Let me say this,on 2019 resolutions,I have beaten that which I had proposed, to plant a tree for each year I have attained. Being 60,you concur with me that this has not been an easy task.Many are in rush to bang the door on 2018 praying that 2019 we usher a new lease of life.

It is common, a human affair to look far,far away in the horizon and in the process forget or become blinded from seeing what is at their feet.Count yourself blessed if you happen to possess a healthy body in a sound mind.This is worth more than what all the gold mines have in their depth.

Have a look at you family and give thanks that it had remained intact and full of life in 2018.Business may have been hard hit,with profit dripping like drops of blood, but then,you still managed to feed your family, clothe them and pay school fees.

This may count as a small gesture in the eyes of many but it is such gestures which lay the foundation of much bigger achievement.A decent ground work sustain a building.These deeds prop your future.

I admit that 2018 had challenges but one must learn to count one’s blessing before mouthing one’s mountain of frustration and lost chances. A stitch in time saves the whole garment, a good deed too saves one from a heartache. Keep an eye on what was good for you in 2018.It heals the soul.

We are brought up in an environment where nothing crop up but sinking negative news,information which erodes our self worth and self esteem. We are bombed by callous energy sapping talk from our friends and colleagues. Let that cease once 2019 steps on the shore.

The biggest asset and weapon against such malicious attack and gossip is you:You mind.Take control of your mind.Realize that it is not good at all to hear and see everything, let that which gives offense pass unnoticed. You may not control people’s views and pestiferous poison hidden in their sugared speech in 2019,but you have the choice on how you respond to them.

This is a year the lord has made.Search for the sunshine of life.Much good is in store for you.Revitalize your faith.Look inwards.And never once feel your are alone for God’s jewelled hand is always on your hand leading you along the way.Cease doubting. Faith and doubt are immiscible, like paraffin and water.

In 2019 ,walk out and give your all to the hustle that gives you a daily bread.If you gave it 80% last year,up it to 200%. For toiling we must.Do not be fast to envy those one night made millionaires,unless they are genuine ,for a number may have corrupted their way to wealth.

In century where many are tempted to worship material wealth ,hold fast to that which is genuinely made.You may be rich but miserable. I have heard many a times those who say that they mind not been miserable but filthy rich,this lot  pray at the altar of mammon.Bank notes should not corrupt you spiritual identity. Never.

Please note,that if you have freedom in your love and in your soul,then you are free.At the expense of chasing that which is worldly many have forfeited their spiritual freedom. Cultivate it in 2019.

Make no enemies. Friends and enemies are two sides of the same coin.How you interprete the enmity that exist around you can either sink you or keep you afloat. Liberated souls have no enemies. For the perceived enemies can be the furnace which like a top grade silver you have to pass through in order to come out clean,free from dross.Attitude create enemies.A settled mind have no foes.

Coming 2019,you have to make  choices,one I say again keep you family close.Make your marriage work.Remember mind not body keeps a marriage. Many marriage fails as result  of ran away lust. Women are deep down identical and so are men.The essence in them doesn’t differ.The package does.The wrapping. See beyond this.

Next guide your mind.Let it have a hedge to keep away the rubbish. A mind which allows any trash to filter in becomes a pig sty.

Connect with God.No matter what the wisecracks say ,I refuse to believe that we are just gross matter.

In short in 2019 observe this list.

1.Keep a light heart.

2.Stretch outwards.

3. Keep an arm length from negative people.

4.Cultivate a healthy and sound mind and body

5.Safeguard your spirituality.

6.Support those in need and you can.

7.Keep tap on your family.

8.Blame less,praise more.

9.Appreciate whom your are.

10.Be accommodative.

11.Be ambitious but still be contented.

KCSE:LEARN A LESSON FROM THIS GIANT KILLER

Kamau J. Mwangi from Mioro secondary school in Murang’a  no doubt out did himself in that once in a blue moon performance which enabled him to rank first among the most improved. His A- score in this K.C.S.E  exam rank him among the country elite performers though his K.C.P.E score was a dismal 278 marks.His accomplishment by any measure was a gigantic feat.

This performance will no doubt give many students in day school-this schools are looked down upon by the elite schools-an impetus and a believe that they too can outperform those highly regarded top of the perch schools. Doesn’t the performance of this students beat many in elite schools.

Talking of the day schools and their performance, one Abakore Mixed Day takes the trophy and beat the shine out of the classy boarding school for being specialist in taking low ranked students with marks in a hundred and two hundreds and lifting them into superior grades in K.C.S .E.

On the most improved column in Pg 4 of Daily Nation 4,December 22,2018,I have made a count of 6 students ranked among the top hundred most improved. Nothing can as well demonstrate beyond any reasonable doubt that a day school can perform than this stellar performance from Abakore mixed school.

It is a well held supposition that Day schools cannot afford to rank as good performers due to perceived and real challenges.Let other Day schools learn from this giant among them.

Many are those who may be tempted to write off a student who scored 133 marks in K.C.P.E as a non starter,after 4 year this school gave him a C+.Another students was picked with 186 marks,four years later he scored a B-.Even a student who had a low of 121 marks marked to get a C in K.C.S.E. A 230 at K.C.P.E became a B-.Hat off to Abakore mixed Day school and its unsung principal. Such a stellar performance deserves not only a notice but also a show of appreciation by the employer.

With such performance do other Day schools have an excuse for a sloppy performance. Not at all.Have not those students from Abakore beaten hands down students from elite schools even National school whose entry marks were astronomically high?

This performance was superb and if many of the schools producing grades D and below care to improve they would by now be trooping to Abakore to benchmark against it trend setting performance. Why say so?Analysis shows that a huge percentage of students who sat for this year exam,in fact 348,897 candidates scored grade D and below.

These graded lock them out of professional courses. This a huge fail.A system which fail almost 85% of its candidates need an overhaul, a rethink. This is why I still think we need to shift to the more competence based system which as things looks now seems to be have some teething problems.

Again a system which manages to place only 13.77% of its candidates into universities need to soul search itself. But Abakore mixed Day school show that maybe it isn’t the system which have the problem, perhaps other factors comes into play.

For if all the schools which had students scoring those base marks as Abakore had kept the pace of this school none would have come out of school with less than C.What then may have gone wrong with this majority of students who scored D and below?

Could it be the mode of teaching which failed them?Could it have been apathy towards the exam on their part?Could it be the stringent measure put by the council nibbed at the bud their intended nefarious cheating?

Could their teachers have been at fault?Now the result are out we need to do a poster mortem. We need to find answers to these questions. But one thing which the exam body did this year and deserve a pat on it back is that it standardised this year exam.

Unlike last two year,for which can say it ,with a high degree of the confidence, the result seemed to have no been standardised.

(The writer is an author, an educationist,and blog at www.4sightsite.WordPress.com)

THANK GOD,IT’S 2019

Exchange me for a fish if I load my self with a basket  of exsufflicate(blown up like a bubble) and blown resolutions like yester years.

As 2019 knocks the door I have made one resolution;that is,not to dupe myself with unattainable resolutions.Many are,perhaps you included, who rush to make resolution which they never pursue even half the way.

Let me say this,on 2019 resolutions,I have beaten that which I had proposed, to plant a tree for each year I have attained. Being 60,you concur with me that this has not been an easy task.Many are in rush to bang the door on 2018 praying that 2019 we usher a new lease of life.

It is common, a human affair to look far,far away in the horizon and in the process forget or become blinded from seeing what is at their feet.Count yourself blessed if you happen to possess a healthy body in a sound mind.This is worth more than what all the gold mines have in their depth.

Have a look at you family and give thanks that it had remained intact and full of life in 2018.Business may have been hard hit,with profit dripping like drops of blood, but then,you still managed to feed your family, clothe them and pay school fees.

This may count as a small gesture in the eyes of many but it is such gestures which lay the foundation of much bigger achievement.A decent ground work sustain a building.These deeds prop your future.

I admit that 2018 had challenges but one must learn to count one’s blessing before mouthing one’s mountain of frustration and lost chances. A stitch in time saves the whole garment, a good deed too saves one from a heartache. Keep an eye on what was good for you in 2018.It heals the soul.

We are brought up in an environment where nothing crop up but sinking negative news,information which erodes our self worth and self esteem. We are bombed by callous energy sapping talk from our friends and colleagues. Let that cease once 2019 steps on the shore.

The biggest asset and weapon against such malicious attack and gossip is you:You mind.Take control of your mind.Realize that it is not good at all to hear and see everything, let that which gives offense pass unnoticed. You may not control people’s views and pestiferous poison hidden in their sugared speech in 2019,but you have the choice on how you respond to them.

This is a year the lord has made.Search for the sunshine of life.Much good is in store for you.Revitalize your faith.Look inwards.And never once feel your are alone for God’s jewelled hand is always on your hand leading you along the way.Cease doubting. Faith and doubt are immiscible, like paraffin and water.

In 2019 ,walk out and give your all to the hustle that gives you a daily bread.If you gave it 80% last year,up it to 200%. For toiling we must.Do not be fast to envy those one night made millionaires,unless they are genuine ,for a number may have corrupted their way to wealth.

In century where many are tempted to worship material wealth ,hold fast to that which is genuinely made.You may be rich but miserable. I have heard many a times those who say that they mind not been miserable but filthy rich,this lot  pray at the altar of mammon.Bank notes should not corrupt you spiritual identity. Never.

Please note,that if you have freedom in your love and in your soul,then you are free.At the expense of chasing that which is worldly many have forfeited their spiritual freedom. Cultivate it in 2019.

Make no enemies. Friends and enemies are two sides of the same coin.How you interprete the enmity that exist around you can either sink you or keep you afloat. Liberated souls have no enemies. For the perceived enemies can be the furnace which like a top grade silver you have to pass through in order to come out clean,free from dross.Attitude create enemies.A settled mind have no foes.

Coming 2019,you have to make  choices,one I say again keep you family close.Make your marriage work.Remember mind not body keeps a marriage. Many marriage fails as result  of ran away lust. Women are deep down identical and so are men.The essence in them doesn’t differ.The package does.The wrapping. See beyond this.

Next guide your mind.Let it have a hedge to keep away the rubbish. A mind which allows any trash to filter in becomes a pig sty.

Connect with God.No matter what the wisecracks say ,I refuse to believe that we are just gross matter.

In short in 2019 observe this list.

1.Keep a light heart.

2.Stretch outwards.

3. Keep an arm length from negative people.

4.Cultivate a healthy and sound mind and body

5.Safeguard your spirituality.

6.Support those in need and you can.

7.Keep tap on your family.

8.Blame less,praise more.

9.Appreciate whom your are.

10.Be accommodative.

11.Be ambitious but still be contented.

A KEY TO 2019

Exchange me for a fish if I load my self with a basket  of exsufflicate(blown up like a bubble) and blown resolutions like yester years.

As 2019 knocks the door I have made one resolution;that is,not to dupe myself with unattainable resolutions.Many are,perhaps you included, who rush to make resolution which they never pursue even half the way.

Let me say this,on 2019 resolutions,I have beaten that which I had proposed, to plant a tree for each year I have attained. Being 60,you concur with me that this has not been an easy task.Many are in rush to bang the door on 2018 praying that 2019 we usher a new lease of life.

It is common, a human affair to look far,far away in the horizon and in the process forget or become blinded from seeing what is at their feet.Count yourself blessed if you happen to possess a healthy body in a sound mind.This is worth more than what all the gold mines have in their depth.

Have a look at you family and give thanks that it had remained intact and full of life in 2018.Business may have been hard hit,with profit dripping like drops of blood, but then,you still managed to feed your family, clothe them and pay school fees.

This may count as a small gesture in the eyes of many but it is such gestures which lay the foundation of much bigger achievement.A decent ground work sustain a building.These deeds prop your future.

I admit that 2018 had challenges but one must learn to count one’s blessing before mouthing one’s mountain of frustration and lost chances. A stitch in time saves the whole garment, a good deed too saves one from a heartache. Keep an eye on what was good for you in 2018.It heals the soul.

We are brought up in an environment where nothing crop up but sinking negative news,information which erodes our self worth and self esteem. We are bombed by callous energy sapping talk from our friends and colleagues. Let that cease once 2019 steps on the shore.

The biggest asset and weapon against such malicious attack and gossip is you:You mind.Take control of your mind.Realize that it is not good at all to hear and see everything, let that which gives offense pass unnoticed. You may not control people’s views and pestiferous poison hidden in their sugared speech in 2019,but you have the choice on how you respond to them.

This is a year the lord has made.Search for the sunshine of life.Much good is in store for you.Revitalize your faith.Look inwards.And never once feel your are alone for God’s jewelled hand is always on your hand leading you along the way.Cease doubting. Faith and doubt are immiscible, like paraffin and water.

In 2019 ,walk out and give your all to the hustle that gives you a daily bread.If you gave it 80% last year,up it to 200%. For toiling we must.Do not be fast to envy those one night made millionaires,unless they are genuine ,for a number may have corrupted their way to wealth.

In century where many are tempted to worship material wealth ,hold fast to that which is genuinely made.You may be rich but miserable. I have heard many a times those who say that they mind not been miserable but filthy rich,this lot  pray at the altar of mammon.Bank notes should not corrupt you spiritual identity. Never.

Please note,that if you have freedom in your love and in your soul,then you are free.At the expense of chasing that which is worldly many have forfeited their spiritual freedom. Cultivate it in 2019.

Make no enemies. Friends and enemies are two sides of the same coin.How you interprete the enmity that exist around you can either sink you or keep you afloat. Liberated souls have no enemies. For the perceived enemies can be the furnace which like a top grade silver you have to pass through in order to come out clean,free from dross.Attitude create enemies.A settled mind have no foes.

Coming 2019,you have to make  choices,one I say again keep you family close.Make your marriage work.Remember mind not body keeps a marriage. Many marriage fails as result  of ran away lust. Women are deep down identical and so are men.The essence in them doesn’t differ.The package does.The wrapping. See beyond this.

Next guide your mind.Let it have a hedge to keep away the rubbish. A mind which allows any trash to filter in becomes a pig sty.

Connect with God.No matter what the wisecracks say ,I refuse to believe that we are just gross matter.

In short in 2019 observe this list.

1.Keep a light heart.

2.Stretch outwards.

3. Keep an arm length from negative people.

4.Cultivate a healthy and sound mind and body

5.Safeguard your spirituality.

6.Support those in need and you can.

7.Keep tap on your family.

8.Blame less,praise more.

9.Appreciate whom your are.

10.Be accommodative.

11.Be ambitious but still be contented.

ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE

  • It is not the sensuous appeal or the flavour of someone that count, or the size of one’s endowment, financially so to speak, which tarry, for more often than not obsession with these lead to a ruinous relationship, No! It is what remain matters, once the fore mentioned properties are stripped naked out of one’s self, and nothing remains standing but a pure heart. Only then shall you be in position to peep through the window of your beloved heart.
  • Throw not good money after bad money merely because the granary is overflowing with coins. Use your money like your undergarments, few in number but they serve you in all seasons, you are never in a hurry to rent them to the public. They religiously cover your “essentials” and basics however overstretched they are, so should be the use of money, fiercely guard you earnings. Sometimes though one is forced to share the inner wears with one’s spouse, so should money, in order to cover the financial nakedness of one’s family.
  • Strive to live inside your strides; you can not fit inside someone else skin. Hug your skin however dented or wrinkled it is. Hang to it and so to life.
  • Collect yourself however unsound your friend’s argument sounds, suspend your judgement, remember, they too are trying to make a meaning out of the world around them. Their seemingly lousy arguments enable them navigate life treacherous waters, that how they accommodate the world, assert order over chaos.
  • In many of the life’s fields , which you have failed, in most of cases one ingredients stand missing: patience. Cultivate a mature patience. Double eyed patience.
  • Strength of a rich sound, strength of muscles, cannot outrun, out do, incubated wisdom. Heed it
  • Noble things in life are priceless and material wealth cannot source them, free self from exaggerated tastes, access the priceless gem of life.
  • Tame your tongue, watch how it enjoy to carry the unrefined, assisting in chewing curds and bellowing, yet it staged a coup d etat over more vital organs (heart, kidney, liver) and installed itself as their dictatorial spokesman, for each and every body parts, it speak on its behalf. Do you life mirror the tongue or heart?
  • The tongue outrun bony legs and outstretched arms, fix it to the root and roof, like the eye in its orbits, and just like a faithful spouse, it will never fail you in its duties.
  • Your life began as single cell, unperceivable by the eye, wasted is life spent on hyena like self interest, like a tree which too sprout out of single seed to give rest to wretched birds of human race, provide a shade for worn out bodies, be a beam onto which the less fortunate can lay a foundation, be a launching pad of the rocketing ambitions of the vulnerable.
  • The high and the low in the material world are made of same stuff, from depth of ocean, to peak of mountain the worlds mirror one another, nothing is new, so do not crudely succumb to over excitement or to melancholy or dour spirit, that seemingly insurmountable challenge facing you is not new but maybe fresh to you, up your resolve, many have cut through those trials, you too shall.
  • Remove sugar from life’s rhythms, again lift the cup of life. Can you drink it dubious? If not then you were after the sugar not the drink itself. Do away with the teaspoons of sweetening a falsified living. Do not compromise your robustness, soberness of life by spicing it with disease inducing styles of life and artificial sweetness of wayward living.
  • Life is a match, you may be destined to be a goalkeeper, if life shapes you as midfielder or defender, play you part too, but let the heart remember, if you huff and puff, stress and strain, rail and rant, rage and reprove, as you are used to, wait and watch how goals shall rain in your life’s net.
  • To fend off the goals, cultivate a predator calmness, a sniper’s composure and a saint’s balanced mind. Keep it in the innermost temple of your mind, that, it is your duty to stand up to unfounded fears which keep you away from your life goals, banish them all, life stumbling hurdles, before the goalposts of life.
  • Move out of your feathered nest, pursue the one lined with thorns, the irritating piercing of thorns will undoubtly drive you to make life charging decisions, mount hilly odds, and achieve dreams which seemed so remote to you while you were cuddled in your feathered nest. Move out the way, your are, your own stumbling block. Mind you, roses sprout out of thorns.
  • Everyone has got a talent, if you have not discovered your gift, wander for miles, climb mountains of life challenges, swim under unending oceanic currents of life’s struggle, sprint barefoot on life scorching sands of trials, search in every corner, squeeze in every life’s opening, drive through life’s faultline,Do everything but search. You will ultimately catch it, find it. Only then shall you start living for prior to this you just existed.